Mindset and values are a huge part of motherhood.
In the world of Covid-19 and Trying to create legacy, it can get really tough.
There are many ideas that come to mind when it comes to driving my dream car and live in my dream house. I know what it looks like, I know what kind of molding I want on the walls, I know the colors I want on the wall.
I just know!
Truthfully, the only thing separating me from my dreams is ME.
My children are my number one motivators in life.
As I grow in motherhood I realized that Legacy is not just leaving them a Trust Fund or Assets its really leaving a mindset that will help them surpass what I have started.
My time in the military I coming to an end and it gets scary. The military is security blanket. Even if the job doesn't make me happy, my mind was trained to do it because the pay, the benefits and perks - it's thankless.
Fear will force you into complacency.
To Combat this fear. I am learning to focus more on things that I am versus the things that I am not.
𝐈 𝐀𝐌 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐓𝐇𝐘: I am worthy of everything. Imposter Syndrome likes to kick in and make me feel like I don't deserve the things I work hard for. For example, when it was time to purchase my home , I didn't feel like i deserved it because I used to have bad credit, although i fixed it, I had never seen anyone close on a home nor do it with no experience.
𝐈 𝐀𝐌 𝐒𝐔𝐂𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐅𝐔𝐋: I am successful at everything I put effort into. Often times we follow the path that others want for us and even though we do great at it, weren't happy . Success and happiness go hand in hand. I am successful because hard at things that spark joy.
Being mindful as a Mother takes a lot of work. Start here by finding 2 things that you ARE!
Speak over yourself!